We all reach a point where we are ready to add a new addition to the family. Be it human, cat or dog (or something more exotic) it can be a worry if the current household will all accept the newcomer. Generally, these things go smoothly, especially when the newbie is some kind of youngster, however, what about if you’re rescuing an adult dog?
If you are rescuing a dog through WaHF, you have the added challenge that you haven’t been able to meet this dog beforehand. Whilst all dogs can act completely differently in new environments, rest assured that we will give you a complete background on their compatibility with dogs, cats and their ideal home life. It’s just as important to us that they all go to loving and safe homes! The most important message that we can give you when thinking of these new meetings is to stay consistent and take it slow. Whilst these methods may not be available to everyone, using or adapting as many as possible will help towards a smooth introduction.
If you’re introducing your new dog to an existing one, there are several things that you can do to build a positive association to each other. In this example, we are going to call our current dog Reggie and our new rescue dog Polly to make it all a little clearer. Firstly, both dogs are going to be a little on edge, it is a big change for both of them and whilst Polly will have to go through a whole life change, Reggie will also need some reassurance to not feel left out.
If at any point they seem to be uncomfortable, take it back a step and take it slower. It can take a long time, but this is the best way for them to learn that neither are that scary.
DO NOT FEED YOUR DOGS TOGETHER OR PRESENT FOOD AROUND THEM! RESUCE DOGS ARE OFTEN RESOURCE GUARDERS AND THIS CAN HAVE LONG TERM EFFECTS ON THEIR RELATIONSHIP.
Remember – If you’re used to having Reggie sleep in the kitchen or laundry room, you may be tempted to get them both in there on the first night. This is something that should definitely be avoided as these two should not be left alone together for the first couple of weeks. Even the most gentle and caring dog has a threshold, so safety and extra precautions in the early days are essential. Whilst it can be seemingly overboard, any altercation between the two dogs can affect their relationship and set you back a long way, so, your carpet may have to suffer the wrath of some extra dog hair for a few days!
Due to travel times, restrictions, traffic and all things planning, we have the odd occasion where our dogs may arrive at a strange hour. On the plus side, this can give you that ‘on the way to the airport for an early flight’ excitement but can affect how you introduce your pups. In this case, it’s always best to stay safe and avoid any risk. Leaving two dogs in an enclosed space if they are not already friends is a big no-no. So opt for a spare bedroom set up for your new arrival. To build reassurance between you and both Reggie and Polly, it can be a good idea to have a your or your partner/ family member to take a sofa sleepover with your newcomer, and let Reggie have a cheeky snooze in the bed to not feel so left out. The next day, take them out to a quite park or a friends (large) garden to follow the steps above.
For the first few days, take a step back and try not to overwhelm your dogs. Essentially, it is the same thing as you suddenly moving in with a complete stranger who speaks a different language – you would like more space to yourself. Even little things like separate water bowls, not encouraging them to get on the sofa together, or even not trying to get them into a photo together. The general direction you should be looking for is giving them a chance to peacefully co-exist before becoming best friends.
It can take days, weeks or even months for the two to feel entirely comfortable with each other, and there are bound to be a few bumps along the road. Don’t feel discouraged and reach out to a force-free behaviourist if you need support. Our team is always on hand for advice to put you in touch with our incredible community of past adopters will be able to offer their stories and recommendations.